"从来没有表扬我...

琢磨不透这个老板到底是什么意思。"

He knows you crave to be praised verbally. By withholding it, he is in control.

Did your parents praise you much when you were growing up? It's likely a childhood reflex you carried around desiring validation from others.

Validate yourself. That involves taking responsibility for yourself. Not easy.

(The money should be validation enough. More praise leads to less money.)

• 得，遇事赖父母的风终于吹到了职坛。人家不过是 -Lancet- ♀ (198 bytes) () 06/25/2025 postreply 04:09:38